Shirley’s family: I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through a similar situation and I was very helped by the hope that I found in the Bible in John 5:28, which says, "Do not amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out". I am sending you a link with more information on this hope.
I am so saddened to hear about the passing of Shirley. She was such a sweet, wonderful and special lady and I am so happy that I got to know her,. We had so much fun playing the piano together at Brandywine - a memory that I will treasure forever. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. God Bless.