Thursday, October 4, 2007
Dearest Mommy,
Elaine and I love you so much. We are so proud that God picked us, to be your children.
You have taught us so much, "like hold your head high even when others try to bring you down", "turn the other cheek", when you see a lemon, make lemonade", and "when people show you who they are, believe them". Because of you, we have been able to view the world in such a positive light.
Your beautiful grandchildren, Ni'Cole, Brandi and Mikee have been so blessed as well. All of them have so much of you.
Nikki has incredible spiritual strength, your dimples and she is an awesome actor. I can't forget the time that she appeared on Cosby, and even though you were in pain, you walked to the train station, slowly, and somehow made it to a cab, to see her film the show. I will always be grateful to Bill for hugging you tight, and sending us back home in a limo.
Beautiful Brandi, Elaine's daughter has your sense of humor, quick wit and academic excellence as well as outstanding basketball skills. She is an excellent teacher and so caring with her students. You were really proud of her, as you watched her play basketball and develop into a class act coach. You were always funny and really did not care that everyone was looking when you yelled "Go Brandi" loudly across the gym.
Mikee, Elaine's son, and your only grandson sees only the good in others. He has your loving spirit, never takes any mess and excels at every sport, just like you. Yes we were in there together to see how we could spoil him, but you made sure that he learned to appreciate life and reward his lessons with a kiss, and when he was old enough, a new car. Mikee now works in the Physical Therapy Department in a hospital and it seems as though he will find his way in the medical field, again, just like you.
You and Dad have changed the lives of so many people. You have given to the community, by beginning each Thanksgiving by teaching us to first go to feed the homeless. You have made an impact on Plainfield's politics, love your friends and your family, and I saw you slip cash to so many people. Now it is time for you to receive.
Before I go, I want you to know that I really loved that green Mustang. People knew that if it was parked in front of the voting offices, you were there or if the Sorors of AKA were meeting, your presence was evident.
Thanks Mommy for fighting for us and teaching us "what is really worth it" and May you continue to be blessed. Lastly, thank you for the video of us dancing together. For us to receive it on the day that you passed was an incredible gift.
Please Mommy, stay close, I need to keep feeling you now. Elaine and I have said it a million times, but once more, please know how much we love you.
Your loving Daughter,
Annette
