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Sunday, April 28, 2019
Stela posted a condolence
Sunday, April 28, 2019Alan was a huge part of my for a long time, I will forever and always be in love with you. I will never forget all the laughs that we shared and the joy that you brought to my life. I love you
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Friday, April 12, 2019
Yisheng posted a condolence
Saturday, March 23, 2019Dear Lian and Tony: I am totally shocked to learn the news about the loss of Alan, and I extend my deepest sympathy to you for your loss. I met Alan when I stayed at your home on my way to work for Burroughs Wellcome. He was only about 3 years old at that time. I clearly remember that he was so sweet and adorable. He had several gold fishes and a couple of small green porcelain turtles in an aquarium. He had so much fun with them. I believe in god’s care, Alan will now have complete peace and happiness in the heaven. I wish you find the strength to let this difficult time begone.
Arup posted a condolence
Saturday, March 23, 2019Dear tony and Lian, Anindita and I are devastated to hear the news, I still remember him with his beautiful smile from the time he was a little one. I pray that you find the strength to go through this difficult time. Alan is in a peaceful place and know that he had the best parents he could have.
Dick Winnike posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 20, 2019Lian and Tony... I was stunned hearing about Alan's passing. I am so sorry for you two and Amy. This is so hard to fathom. I remember fondly when AeKyong was caring for Alan at our house when Lian was working at Burroughs Wellcome. Such a fun, happy child! Please know that you have so many friends pulling for you right now. I hope you find strength and peace from that. Dick Winnike
Yi Yang posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 20, 2019Alan’s suddenly leaving us caught me in shock, sadness and speechless. I knew Tony 15 years ago when we both still worked as colleagues in Novartis. I first and, also last saw Alan at a party in Tony and Lian Feng’s house in Basking Ridge. But I felt I re-met Alan just a few days ago as I came-across his very thoughtful book called «Flowers - Philosophy for New Consciousness» as Tony asked me to help Alan’s portrait preparation. When I read Alan’s book, I found he had very deep and honest thoughts about the reality of the world and the value of life than I do and some dimension of the thinking we may not reach. He resembled the life as flowers, for its nature and purity . Flowers are wonderful gifts of the nature, cheering the people and enriching the world. People used flowers to propose their loved ones for the happiness and now we use flowers to tribute Alan for the memory. In the world there are over 1 million types of flowers. Some blooms for as long as a few months but others just quietly and transiently for as short as a few hours. The latter is best exampled by night-blooming cereus (昙花). Cereus’ short blooming certainly bring us a unique excitement and memorable delights. Tony and Lian-Feng, Alan never left you, he is one of the most beautiful flowers around, continuously charming you both and Amy; he is also not alone, because he is always remembered by you and accompanied by many other flowers in the nature. Finally, I would like to conclude my words by reciting Alan’s book’s endnote in Chinese: 觉醒是意识的开花。有时你会闭上眼睛，感受宇宙在你体内绽放。觉醒是一个自然的过程。除了品尝人生的经历之外，什么都不需要做。在充满挑战的时代，请记住，你并不孤单。记得要呼吸。记住你心中埋藏了一颗神圣的花的种子。你所要做的就是让它成长。所有创造都很好。
Jiahui Hu posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 19, 2019Dear Tony and Lian, Both Zhongshui and I are deeply saddened to learn of your loss. Please accept our sincere condolences. May you and your family find strength and comfort during this difficult time. Jiahui and Zhongshui
joseph zielinski posted a condolence
Monday, March 18, 2019Dear Tony and Lian, my deepest sympathies Kind regards joe z
Steve Valazza posted a condolence
Monday, March 18, 2019Dear Tony and Lian, I am very sorry to learn of the loss of your son. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Steve
Abu posted a condolence
Monday, March 18, 2019Dear Tony and Lian, Both Hamida and I are devastated by the sad news. We pray that both of you get the mental strength to overcome your sorrows. It is such a shock. When Hamida and I visited China in 2005 for a conference, both of you were there with us along with Alan and Amy. I also met Alan when I visited your house. Such a wonderful boy. I will always cherish his memory. Abu
Jim Kowalski posted a condolence
Sunday, March 17, 2019Dear Tony and Lian, There are no words that can express our deepest sorrow for your loss. Please know that you are in our prayers during this difficult time. Jim and Andrea
Bob Wagner posted a condolence
Sunday, March 17, 2019Dear Tony and Lian, I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Please accept my condolences. Sincerely, Bob
Sundeep Dhareshwar posted a condolence
Sunday, March 17, 2019Dear Lian and Tony, Please accept my heartfelt condolences on this very sad and untimely news on Alan. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Sundeep
Erika Zannou-Mantri & Rao Mantri posted a condolence
Sunday, March 17, 2019Dear Tony and Lian, We are so sorry for your loss. May you find strength and peace to help you deal with the pain and keep the happy memories throughout. Sincerely, Erika & Rao.
Rowena Choudrie lit a candle
Saturday, March 16, 2019
Sudha Vippagunta posted a condolence
Saturday, March 16, 2019Lian and Tony, Such a shock to hear about your loss! Please accept my deepest condolences. May you find strength to deal with this tragedy. Sorry! Sudha
Keith Guillory posted a condolence
Saturday, March 16, 2019Dear Tony and Lian: It was quite a shock to learn of Alan's passing. I will make a contribution in his memory to the charity that you mentioned. Please accept my sincere condolences. Keith
Mario Hubert posted a condolence
Friday, March 15, 2019Lian, Please accept my deepest condolences to you and your family. I wish you and your family a lot of strength during this difficult time. Let me know if I can be of any help. Mario
Nianhang Chen posted a condolence
Friday, March 15, 2019Dear Lian and Tony, I am very saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences. May you find the strength to get through this. Nianhang
Jennifer Poon posted a condolence
Friday, March 15, 2019Dear Lian, My deepest condolences to you and your family. I am so saddened to hear about your son. My heart and prayers go out to you and your loved ones during this time. Please let me know if you need anything. Jen Poon
Daniel Weiss posted a condolence
Friday, March 15, 2019Dear Lian and Family, My deepest condolences for you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Chris Marton posted a condolence
Thursday, March 14, 2019Dear Lian and family, I want to extend my deepest condolences to you. I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope that you are able to find comfort in each other and in the memory of your dear son. Chris
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Thursday, March 14, 2019
Tracy Gaebele posted a condolence
Thursday, March 14, 2019Dear Lian - please accept my deepest condolences. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family in this tragic moment. May you find strength in each other to get your though this. Tracy
张真 posted a condolence
Thursday, March 14, 2019送别 Alan 你是勇敢的雄鹰， 折翼在暴风雨之中， 你是耀眼的流星， 划过漆黑的夜空。 你是燃烧的篝火， 驱散了严冬的寒冷， 你是冬天里的腊梅， 在春天里凋零。 你留给世界的，是灿烂的笑容， 你留给自己的，却是伤痛。 你远行的脚步，慢点， 再慢点， 让你年轻的身影， 回到我们梦中。
Zheng Chen posted a condolence
Thursday, March 14, 2019Dear Lian, Please accept my deepest condolences to you and your family. This is such a heart broken message. I can still remember how proudly you were when you talked about your son. Wish your family get through this difficult time and recover from the pain soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Best Regards, Zheng
Randi Smith posted a condolence
Thursday, March 14, 2019Dear Lian and family, I am deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your beloved son. My deepest condolences. I will maintain you and your families in my prayers.
Zili Shi posted a condolence
Thursday, March 14, 2019Growing up, Alan was my best friend. From playing Halo on the XBOX to shooting off model rockets, Alan and I had so much fun together. The grin on his face was always so infectious that one couldn't help but laugh along. Even now, 16 years later, I often think of how happy his presence made me feel. Alan, thank you for sharing your laughter, your kindness, and your love. You will be missed.
Olivier Graber posted a condolence
Thursday, March 14, 2019Dear Lian and family, this is with deep sadness that I am reading your message. My condolences for your loss. God bless Alan.
Ilgaz Akseli posted a condolence
Thursday, March 14, 2019Dear Lian, I am deeply saddened and truly sorry to hear of the loss of Alan. My deepest condolences and may our prayers help comfort you and Your family.
Elaine Pu posted a condolence
Thursday, March 14, 2019Dear Lian and Tony, I feel shocked and deeply sad about the news. As a mom of three children, I share the great pain and regret of the loss of a loved child, let alone such a young, talented, thoughtful boy like Alan. If I can do anything to comfort and help you through this difficult moment of your life, please do not hesitate to let me know. I wish your son Rest In Peace and you family could recover from this tragedy soon. God bless your little boy in heaven. Best regards, Elaine
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